Sunday, 6 April 2025

A daughter's journey.


From the moment I opened my eyes to the world, my father was my constant. He was the one who carried me in his arms, dropped me off at school, polished my shoes, and made sure my socks were neatly pulled up. He helped me with math and science, patiently guiding me through every formula and equation. But more than that, he shaped me into who I am today—with his kindness, his strength, and his unwavering love.

Growing up, I always saw him as invincible. A simple man with the most generous heart, he never put himself first. He lived for his family, for us.

When he retired in February 2023, I was happy for him. Finally, after years of hard work, he would rest. He would enjoy time with us, free from responsibilities. But life had a different plan.

September 6, 2023—A day that changed everything.

It started with just a numbness in his fingers. He brushed it off at first, but soon, that numbness spread, creeping through his body like an unseen force. Within hours, he couldn’t move. Our world turned upside down.

The hospital became our second home. Machines beeped around him, doctors spoke in hushed tones, and we—his family—stood helpless, watching the strongest man in our lives become completely paralyzed. The diagnosis was Guillain-Barré Syndrome (GBS)—a rare condition where the body attacks its own nerves.

I had never felt fear like that before. The man who once held my tiny hands to teach me how to walk could not even lift his own finger. It felt like the world had stopped spinning, like all light had disappeared.

But he did not give up. And neither did we.

We prayed, we cried, we hoped. Then, a miracle happened—not suddenly, but in small, beautiful steps. A kind doctor took his case with dedication. A physiotherapist worked with him tirelessly. And Papa fought—with every ounce of strength he had left.

First, he twitched a finger. Then, he moved his hand. Every tiny progress felt like a victory, a step closer to bringing him back to us.

Through this battle, I grew up in ways I never imagined. The girl who once ran to her father for help was now standing beside him, holding his hand, whispering, “You’ve got this, Papa.”

Months passed, and my father—my hero—proved that strength is not just in muscles but in the heart. He learned to sit again, then to stand, and finally to walk. His determination showed me that miracles exist. That no matter how slowly we move, as long as we don’t stop, we will get there.

Today, he is a proud GBS survivor. And I am a proud daughter.

This journey changed me forever. It taught me that life can shift in an instant, but love, courage, and resilience can bring us back from even the darkest depths.

More than anything, it made me realize the importance of awareness—because rare diseases like GBS should never be ignored or misdiagnosed.

Papa’s battle was not just his—it was ours. And as we move forward, we carry his strength in our hearts, knowing that no matter what life throws at us, we will face it. Together.

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